Sticking to a set bedtime helps children feel secure because it offers predictability. For babies, spend 5 or 10 minutes cuddling and making eye contact, singing or saying soothing words. Either way, spending a few minutes asking kids questions about their day (focusing on the positive) or telling them things you’ve noticed about them can be a nice ritual. On the other hand, when a caregiver is home all the time, kids become dependent on the caregiver’s presence for comfort. When parents work full time during the day, evenings are when kids get their parents’ attention. Some kids become unsettled at bedtime because they’re longing for more attention from their caregiver. When a plan is communicated and rehearsed, children are more likely to internalize it and less likely to ask for things that are not on the script. Review the plan together before you begin. For kids that can’t read, use a chart with pictures. Next, list the steps in sequence - “Put on pajamas, brush teeth, read books, cuddle, lights out” - so everyone knows exactly what will happen. Let them decide how many books you will read together and when the cuddles will happen (this helps them identify their own settling needs and gives them a sense of control). If you have a toddler or an older child, ask for their input in forming the plan. If you have an infant, it might be as simple as singing a song and turning on the white-noise machine. Adam Seligman, a physician’s assistant in the Stanford Children’s Health Sleep Center, offers these helpful suggestions: Sadly, just knowing your kids need a good night’s sleep doesn’t mean they’ll get it. So, sleep is important, especially for kids. For example, in kids, the most intense period of growth hormone release is shortly after the beginning of deep sleep.” “We are learning more and more about the impact of sleep on regulatory hormones. Sumit Bhargava, director of Stanford Children’s Health Sleep Center. “ is crucial for everyone but especially for kids, who are developing both mentally and physically,” says Dr. But even when they’re curled up and tucked into bed, their brains are working hard on developmental activities like memory consolidation (the process of putting experiences in order, learning what’s important and unlearning what’s not). Nothing looks more peaceful than a sleeping child.
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